You have your 'real homework' cut out for you. Every day now, you will have
to analyze the day, analyze what happened. Only you can do this.
The bullies will get away with things until you figure out what to do.
As you see what THEY do and how they set you up, you will begin
to come up with plans.
These won't work!! So why make them? You grow. You make better ones,
and better ones.
It's a rough world, you know this, so this is boot camp and it will help
you for the rest of your life...IF you take this seriously every day.
You will lose a lot of battles because they plan these things,
whether 'on the spot' (all that eye contact??) or through
texting or whatever.
The 'plan' is to put you into a bad light, to 'get' you. Just like
racism, you aren't 'one of them', so then they go against you.
This is really part of the cause of wars, so you see this
right in the classroom.
I would recommend you try to sign up for any self-defence
and/or martial arts...it will give you confidence.
Just as you are may not 'cut it'. I would also always carry
an 'equilizer' which can just be probably a web-cam or
video camera, small one and do take pictures of them,
(they can't stop you)...learn to do this so they can't prove
you are taking it of them.
Here's a site and you'll have to study up on bullies:
http://ca.search.yahoo.com/r/_ylt=A0oGkm...
'LIfe' has not been 'normal' for a long time now. You rearrange your life.
if i were you i would go to the principal and talk to her or he and tell him or her that you have bullies in your class and you been bullied and you don't want to deal with it no more and tell him or her that if you can change classes with your friends to feel more compfortable. i know how you feel i got bullied to.
If she says something mean to you act like you don't know who she is. Just say "do I know you???"
So, school is in a couple days and just yesterday I went to go see who was in my homeroom and I found out that I had a bunch of ignorant,self-fish, mean people in my class...And sadly they are ALL in a majority of my classes..& being me not wanting drama I asked my mom to call the office to ask to switch and she did and they said it was too late to switch and that I cant switch but if anything happens maybe we can do something about it -.- , and also I have NO FRIENDS in those classes so no one to help me..I mean I am not really scared of the boys saying things but, just the girl. I honestly don't know why she doesn't like me. But I think it's because me and her friend had an argument but, we got over it, we're cool I guess? But the girl still picked on me. I dont know if she is the same this year but just for some reason I wanna know how to kind of protect myself from hurtful words. & by the way I am going into 8th grade so things can be pretty harsh? & I will not hit anyone until they hit me but knowing them they won't but I feel like it won't stop till I have her in the hospital? Which is certainly an option ... REMINDER; i dont know if she is still this way but, she was in at the end of 7th..? HELP!
